I was bullied in school. Primary school. At different times by different people. I really didn’t know why or how it started but I noticed the granddaughter of the proprietress picked on me. She’d walk up to me and quickly throw me a punch in my tummy, look around quickly before running away. The pain sent Read More…
Family & Kids
On Adam and Steve
We all acknowledge that the world is changing but we also know that some so-called changes negate our essence and culture.
Work, Home, Balance
We were told to wait until after the general meeting. I always run away from meeting after meeting because they have a way of dragging us into more commitment. Our pockets and time get to pay heavily for it. This meeting was no exception, and as I sat back grudgingly, I wasn’t disappointed. The financial Read More…
Lagos Govt: Majority of victims aware of partners’ abusive tendencies pre-marriage
According to the Lagos State Government’s Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA), 75% of survivors were aware of their spouses’ violent behaviours prior to marriage. Mrs Titilola Vivour-Adeniyi, Executive Secretary of the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA), stated this at a meeting with members of the Lagos State Association of Professional Wedding Read More…
December is not a deadline – don’t kill yourself
The Christmas season which is a celebration that is peculiar to December is always interesting and fun-filled. The joy of the season is such that is felt by all, including none Christians. Most businesses seem to boom more during the Christmas season and most business people always look forward to it. It is also an Read More…
The wisdom of old age
One of the biggest mistakes that young people, especially teenagers make sometimes is to see their parents as ‘old school’ to the point that they begin to think that they do not have anything to offer in this 21st century As much as I agree that most parents do not understand the dynamism of parenting Read More…
Kindness can be learned too!
One of the things I would encourage people, not just parents, but anyone who is saddled with the responsibility of raising a child either as a parent, guardian, caregiver, coach, teacher, or mentor is to teach the child KINDNESS. Yes!! You heard me right, kindness can also be learned from home or from anyone willing Read More…
The Beauty Of Youthfulness
Last year, I authored and released a book titled NOW THAT YOU ARE YOUNG. In that book, I addressed many issues that perturb young people and how they can soar above the challenges of being young to chart a new course for themselves. Do you know that youthfulness can be an advantage or a disadvantage Read More…
There’s nothing shameful about being a virgin
It often baffles me how people are shamed and talked down on when they openly admit that they are virgins. I mean, it is okay to feel uneasy for whatever reason best known to you when people around you proudly talk about their virginity, especially if you have offered yours on a platter of gold. Read More…
When liberty becomes an obstacle
A few months ago I was invited by a church to lecture their teenage girls on the subject of sexual immorality and how to abstain from it. It was very detailed teaching as I was given ample time to dissect the topic; hence, I tried as much as I could to do justice to the Read More…